Who’s Journey?
That is the question. Can we truly know what another is thinking or
feeling without asking? In the asking
does it settle the question? No, of
course not. It may be an answer but I
have learned that we do not ‘truly’ understand until we have experienced the
same life experiences.
Another equally important point is
we all process differently. Acceptance
to some may come with many blows to the heart/head, while the same outcome may
be produced quickly in others without any suffering, so the question should be,
‘why’?
I am of the life lesson/learned from
experience, mindset that loving someone while they are going through a rough
‘patch’ may be all that is needed. We
don’t always get the choice of our directions taking from us before turning
left or right. Hindsight?
What also comes to mind is the judgment
given or felt during a dark time. I
suppose others will spread joy or judge whichever they care too. On the receiving end the later can be hurtful
and again, I try not to harm…… try……
So, my journey needs no condemnation;
no journey does. In the quiet
desperation of wandering and wondering it came to me that life can’t always be
explained and understood. I had a
friend tell me, ‘you can’t explain crazy’.
I am reminded over and over when the question pops up, why? Knowing the why does not change the outcome.
Along life’s journey we will meet
many people and all of us have a story.
Be kind…….You never know what’s being written in yours.
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